In the present paper, as the title shows, we talk about Sukhomlinsky’s views on love, marriage and family, which, unfortunately, receive less attention. He talks about these issues in his books: "How to raise a real person", "Letters to a son", "Book about love", "Parents’ pedagogy", "Wise leadership of the team" (Methodology of raising a team), In the article "Thoughts on schooling" and others. V. A. Sukhomlinsky considered the upbringing of the right relationship between the couple to be the task of the school and the family.