The article discusses the importance of the roles of the father in the family through the prism of tact. Eight original views of the fatther’s tactful behawior were presented. Parental cooperation in educational interactions with children was also emphasized. The assertive tact of repeated thought, ludic, refined, of technical knowledge, encouraging, emotional ans vis attractiva was indicates in the author’s approach to the paternity tact. Thereby enriching the educational context of family life and guiding towards full respect of human being, as our reality is not imbued with the culture of behaviour.