The dialogic exchange from digital media marks one of the main spaces for couple building. Thus, this article seeks to understand the experiences of women in the process of couple building from the existential continuum and discontinuum, given the absence of information on women's experiences in couple building today. The development of the same is framed in the qualitative-phenomenological methodology, describing the subjective and intersubjective accounts of women between 20 and 32 years old, responding to the question "How are couple relationships constructed nowadays from an existential point of view? As a result, two questions are answered: What would be the present causes that maintain the way of existing of women in the process of building a couple, and what would be, from the results found, the way of existing that allows acting in a reflexive and responsible way?