Currently, the main components of the education and upbringing system in traditional Kazakh society are of great interest. Each of these components played an important role in the formation of Kazakh culture and way of life. Traditional upbringing and Muslim education created a rich and multi-layered system of values. This article examines the forms of traditional regulation of life: social and national traditions and customs, rules and norms of behavior that form moral ideals, special attention is paid to the basics of charity. These traditions and values continue to influence modern Kazakh society, and they are an important part of Kazakhstan's cultural heritage.