Variable Ratio (VR) reinforcement schedules are among the most powerful behavioral mechanisms for generating persistent, extinction-resistant actions. While VR has been extensively studied in operant conditioning and gambling paradigms, its broader role in socially embedded addictive behaviors—including SNS use disorder, romantic intermittent reinforcement, spiritual fraud, and destructive cult involvement—remains insufficiently theorized. This paper integrates Skinnerian reinforcement theory, Schultz's reward prediction error (RPE) model, and Berridge & Robinson's incentive salience framework with contemporary neuroimaging findings to propose a unified account of VR reinforcement × dopaminergic wanting × social approval dynamics. We argue that many forms of social manipulation—including algorithmically engineered SNS engagement—exploit the same neural machinery as gambling devices, transforming interpersonal and digital interactions into VR-like reinforcement schedules that hijack the mesolimbic dopamine system. The resulting model explains the shared compulsive, extinction-resistant patterns observed across gambling disorder, SNS use disorder, romantic dependency, spiritual exploitation, and cultic indoctrination. We further present a set of hierarchically organized testable predictions designed to discriminate this framework from principal alternative accounts. Implications for clinical intervention, prevention, and social policy are discussed.