This paper extracts LIGO gravitational wave data using Python and conducts a comparative analysis based on the standard characteristics of "waves," revealing that gravitational wave data do not conform to the properties of "waves." If the assumption that gravitational waves are "waves" is taken as the starting point, not only does this fail to explain relativity itself, but it also creates a significant obstructive effect on the connection between relativity and quantum mechanics. Through the double-slit interference experiment, it is demonstrated that the grid-like gradient transmission of light can also produce interference fringes, perfectly explaining the wave-particle duality of light. Furthermore, it is proposed that energy grid-like gradient transmission is the fundamental mechanism for energy transmission, meaning that energy transmission is not continuous but rather a discrete transfer between energy nodes. This theory not only provides a better alternative to the "wave" hypothesis in explaining the contradictory special phenomena in LIGO gravitational wave data but also enables a seamless theoretical connection between relativity and quantum mechanics.