Abstract Female carriers of X‐linked inherited retinal diseases (IRDs) are burdened with potentially passing their disease‐causing variant to future generations, as well as exhibiting signs of retinal disease themselves. This study aimed to investigate carriers' experiences of genetic testing, emotions relating to having affected children, and their knowledge regarding genetic testing and gene therapy. An online survey was advertised to self‐identified carriers worldwide. Two hundred and twenty‐eight carriers completed the survey with mean age of 51 years (SD ± 15.0). A majority of respondents resided in the United States of America (51%), Australia (19%), and the United Kingdom (14%). Most carriers identified with feelings of guilt (70%), concern (91%), and anxiety (88%) for their child. Female carriers who had given birth to children had significantly greater gene therapy knowledge compared to carriers who had not ( p < 0.05). Respondents agreed that their eyecare provider and general practitioner helped them understand their condition (63%), however, few carriers reported receiving psychological counselling (9%) or family planning advice (5%). Most respondents (78%) agreed that gene therapy should be available to carriers. This study emphasises the importance of providing appropriate counselling to female carriers and illustrates the motivation of many to participate in emerging treatment options, such as gene therapy.