Abstract The mining of coal mines in western China needs to focus on protecting groundwater. A non-hydrophilic similar material for simulating the development and hydraulic conductivity of weakly cemented overlying strata fractures was developed. Fine sand, coarse sand, and gypsum are used as aggregates. Paraffin and Vaseline are used as binders. The non-hydrophilic material ratios of weakly cemented sandy mudstone and medium-grained sandstone were determined by orthogonal experiments, and used for similar simulation tests. The results show that the non-hydrophilicity of rock-like materials can be adjusted to prevent them from softening and collapsing under the action of water. Non-hydrophilic materials of higher strength and brittleness of rocks can be achieved by adjusting the content of paraffin, fine sand, and gypsum. The non-hydrophilic materials of soft and large particle rocks can be achieved by adjusting the content of paraffin, fine sand, and gypsum. After the coal seam in a similar simulation experiment was extracted, the large area of weakly cemented rock above it underwent overall settlement and fracture. Although this part was located within the failure zone, there was no macroscopic water-conducting cracks generated. The height of the water-conducting fracture zone was lower than the height of the fracture zone classified by the traditional ‘three zone’ theory, which is consistent with the on-site measurements. This indicates that the prepared non-hydrophilic material is reliable. The similarity simulation method based on non-hydrophilic materials can enrich the means for studying the fracture and permeability of weakly cemented overlying rocks in coal mines.