This article makes you think people, especially the young generation, that to be parents, first you need to learn this. The author writes about how relationships within the family affect the growing personality of the child and considers it this way so that people could see a new task in his life. The author writes from a modern perspective of how to adapt man to the future, what we need to teach parents and how to help the person. This article describes a study of family relations on the basis of such techniques as: "drawing the family" and "Three trees" and methods "the Distribution of children by status categories", where the results were obtained and analyzed.